Friday, February 8, 2019

My New Hip

Two years ago in early February, I finally had surgery to replace my right hip.

I had been limping at least slightly, for many, many years and it had gotten progressively worse. Pain came and went. I visited chiropractors and surgeons from time to time, making assessments, seeing if anyone was right. No one was. I wasn't ready. Then Karen told me about her wonderful, easy hip surgeries and successful, fast healing at the clinic in Los Angeles. Movie stars go to the same hospital for their 'procedures', and the care and food and view are fabulous! Medicare pays for it! Okay, that sounds like a plan! I could fly out there, she could pick me up at the airport, and then a week or two  later I could fly back to Bardstown and have rehab at home.

I was starting to get used to the idea. Then, my ankles and knees and other joints began to hurt. I thought it was due to extra weight and pressure on them from my not being able to put weight on my right hip. I knew something needed to be done, and soon. As I gathered information, I realized I would not be able to fly cross country a few days after hip surgery, so LA was not a good idea, as much as I would have liked to have movie star level of care...  I asked people for recommendations. Grandpa's hospice nurse had a surgeon who took care of her daughter with hip problems from a severe accident. He's excellent, she said, and very kind. He uses the anterior (Zimmer) method for replacement (same as Karen's dr.) So I made an appointment and went to see him at Baptist Health in Louisville, because one can get an appointment with him more quickly there than in Bardstown. He works in both places, she said.

Yes. It was a match. I knew it the moment he walked in and confidently said in his slight Indian accent, "Ma'am, you need a new hip."  I said, "How do you know? You haven't even seen me yet." He said it's his job. He and I decided to wait till after my planned trip to Austria (citizenship papers) and Christmas, and do it in January, which I changed to February. Everything fell into place, and I felt good about it. He said he does surgery at our little hospital in Bardstown, he said it's a good hospital, so I said okay. That would make it easier for John to visit me and be there with me.

My two weeks at the hospital were both easy and hard. The first night was terrible. The pain was severe at times, and there was a brief moment in the night when I woke up and didn't know who I was or where I was. That was terrifying. The care was excellent. After a day or two, it was so nice to be on heavy drugs and to be able to sleep every time I closed my eyes. I scared Celina, she later said, because I talked really fast and crazy on the phone. Haha. I hurt John's feelings because I called for the nurse right in the middle of him reading me something and interrupted him and got up to go the bathroom. We didn't know that drugs make a person act differently. Haha. Now we know.

The second week, I was moved upstairs to rehab. They did a great job helping me learn to walk and move etc. I felt great there. Drugs! The nurses and rehab staff were proud of my rapid progress. I was their star student, they said... A+... Smile again.

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Then at home I used the walker. Every day brought a bit of slight improvement. Did not need to fill the pain prescription the dr. sent home with me. My two assistants, John and Celina, waited on me hand and foot and cared for every need. After outpatient rehab, I was cleared to go back to the gym and told to 'not overdo it'. I didn't think I did, but I think there was one machine I should not have used. At any rate, I got Terrible Pain in my right leg. Had to crawl to the bathroom for a day or two. Nothing was permanently damaged, but those large muscles took two months to heal.

The full anesthesia affected my memory and thinking for many weeks. All in all, it took six months to get back to being myself. Now it is absolutely great. I can't believe it. Just wonderful. My other joints don't hurt anymore either. I am so thankful I had the hip replacement.


Friday, December 21, 2018

50 Years!

50  The celebration was teeny-tiny, but the love and gratitude are great.

Monday, June 18, 2018

Brunnehüsli Stories


Steven and Cristie and the children are now living outside of Zurich, Switzerland for three months. They are over in St. Gallen and in the Appenzellerland as much as possible! 

They have taken the cable car from Brülisau up to the Hoher Kasten and hiked down, with Chris and Amy's family. It's a tradition. Steven said as they got to the area, he recognized every house and every bend in the road. He could not believe how gorgeous it all is, and exactly the same as it used to be.

He said he has told the children at least seventy-five stories from his childhood, and they still want to hear more! He calls them "Brunnehüsli stories".
 Makes my heart happy.


Yes, he really did ride down from Hoher Kasten on the manure wagon that one time when Grandma's knees were bothering her and she couldn't walk anymore.
                   
                            

Thursday, June 7, 2018

"Oh happy day!" (week)


The boys came.


                               The first thing we did was go to the woods, as in summers past.






                                             


                       We cooked, and ate yummy food. The boys made their specialties for us.


                         


                                               We went to the farm and worked.


                                                   
                                   
                                                           We went to church.



                                We watched movies. My favorite was "Paddington 2".

  And mainly we enjoyed every day with these two dear, big, wonderful boys. 

Wednesday, May 2, 2018

First Day of May

I love the month of May especially. I think it may be my favorite of all.

This year, May got off to a wild start. We bought a farm! And a (used) little tractor.  - Crazy.


A young Amish family - Ruth and Willard with their four sweet little children - has been renting the house, barn and land since Christmas.

The purity, simplicity and love in Ruth and Willard's life and family are a good beginning for us in this house. As I said to Ruth, I hope we can keep this ambiance and feeling going, at least in part.


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Monday, April 9, 2018

New Place

It's been quite the time around here. Lots of struggles and work and effort, and it's been good. We have worked well together, and supported each other when one or the other lost courage.


Here's an email I sent to my two sisters last week:

HI guys,

I already mentioned this house to Michaela, but just wanted to let you both know -

We have found a house for us, and are in the process of buying it.
Termite inspection was yesterday, all clear. Later this week, we meet with plumber, electrician and builder on site.
It’s been a long and at times scary road, but we feel comfortable that we have made a good choice and hopefully the right choice.
We made two other offers on other houses in past months, but they were not accepted. Now we are SO glad!
We had hoped to stay in our county and branch, but prices have risen so much here, that we had to look further out.
This house is an Amish house and little farm. Like other Amish houses, it is sturdy and well-built, but has no plumbing or heating or electricity.
So all that will have to be added. It will take work and time, and we plan to do what we can (like painting) ourselves.
It has a small, cute grandparent house on the property, as if often the custom, and hopefully we can sell that and move it to another Amish location.

My favorite piece on the property is the barn. It smells really good of hay and animals, and has very nice wood inside. They have their goats, two horses and chickens in there now. But I know I can’t get caught up in “Bauernromantik” at the moment. There is too much work to be done, and too much at stake.

We’re looking at this project as a ‘fix and flip’ in two years. But of course we may stay longer.
The Amish owners, the Schwartz family, came way down from their original price, so we think it is a good deal, which is of course part of our “real estate plan”.
Eventually we would like to be in Utah part of the year, closer to the family since those who don’t already live there seem to come there regularly, but real estate prices are too high for us at the moment.

And here are their responses:
(Mich)  Wow. Je suis stupéfaite! Amazed. Bravo! Congratulations! You all are brave! Jake mentioned casually "my parents bought a house," and I jumped all over him, which house? the Amish house? tell me all about it!!! I wasn't quite sure if it was really so. Wow. Fabulous and scary at the same time. So many changes. A grand new adventure!!! We all want to come see it!!!  
And the house needs to go up on the geese!!!! wowza!

(Urs)  That's incredible news, congratulations, mazel tov!!!
It sounds like a really good decision (aside from the fact that the place sounds extremely romantic and cute).
I'm happy for you, and would love to see it one day!  

And here's what David had to say:
thanks mom for the updates.  good luck with the house stuff. maybe skip adding electricity and list the place on AirBnB as "the ultimate getaway for tech-dependent families"? digital detox is all the rage right now. put in a meditation room and the coastal elites will love it. 

And here's what Ursula said to that idea:
 Hey, put me number one on the list!!!

And Michaela:
and a room with yoga mats :) build it and they will come ...

And Dad:
Ask David if we should leave the two outhouses. To give a really authentic experience.

And I responded later: 

Yes, so many changes, that is true.
Sometimes at night I turn to John and say, Are we really doing this? Are we crazy?
Before we actually decided to do it, we both took turns being sleepless a night or two, and feeling scared.
But honestly, I have felt really good about this place, and actually pushed it a little from time to time.
We have to take the plunge sometime.
And we do both feel really good about it. Of course we did the numbers over and over again, and talked to people with experience and expertise, too.   [plus over a year of real estate inv. classes]